Getting Physical: The One Thing That All Women Do First - Some People Need a Good Clubbing: # 22

"Getting Physical: The One Thing That All Women Do First"

By Michael “Bishop” Emery

Women come in many shapes, sizes, looks, and colors. Some are actively looking for a quality man; some are just open to a relationship but not really making a huge effort, while others are enjoying little flings here and there and want to remain single. No matter whom the woman is however, she still does one thing that you need to know as you go out there using your skills of attraction and seduction.

* Have you ever been talking to a woman, the conversation is flowing well and you seem to be hitting it off nicely, but you go in for the kiss and she backs away?

* Have you ever been at a party or club, talking to a group of people, and as a woman you barely spoke to gets ready to leave, she gives you a kiss goodbye? Ok, maybe that one hasn't happened to you very much yet, but you might at least know a guy who that has happened to.

* Have you been on a date where things are going great but the woman resists a kiss, while on another date that seemed to flow almost exactly the same, the woman does not resist the kiss?

What is going on here???

What is going on is that a woman will not engage in something physical with a guy until she has first imagined it inside her mind. She will not kiss you until after she has already imagined what it would be like to kiss you. She will not let you touch her intimately until after she has already imagined how pleasurable it might feel to have your hands on her body. She will not have sex with you until after she has already imagined what sex with you might be like. All women are this way, every one of them. Understand that there is a difference however between her thinking about kissing you and actually allowing a kiss to take place. A woman can have imagined all kinds of possible passion from your kiss, yet still resist that kiss for various reasons. But no women will kiss you until she at least first imagines kissing you, until her curiosity about it is sparked.

Knowing this universal truth about women is just one part of this article. The other part is, "How do I get her to imagine doing these things with me, and how can I tell when that's happened?"

There are two things you will want to get skilled at recognizing, so you know when to "make your move." Those two things are:

Specific Body Language

Before you can attract a woman, you must first get her curious about you, so if you feel you need to work on that area click here to read the article “Conversational Magic.” Women will almost always display the same kinds of body language when they are attracted to a man, so while what follows is not to be taken as exact it is almost flawless in accuracy. Attraction body language indicators include:

• Her upper torso and shoulders remain facing toward you or almost toward you when you’re both sitting down talking.
• Her legs are crossed so that her foot is facing toward you.
• Her head is titled to one side and her eyes maintain longer contact with yours as you or she is talking.
• While standing or sitting with you she will lower her head slightly while looking at you, causing more of the whites of her eyes to show.
• As she rubs any part of her body (arms, legs, neck) she will do it with mostly the top or tips of her fingers instead of the length of her fingers, and most likely the movement will be done slowly.

When you start to spot these indicators now, you will begin to feel more confident knowing you’re doing something right. So get very familiar with these indicators so you will have to do less guesswork on her level of interest and attraction toward you.

Revealing Comments & Tonality

When a woman is attracted to you, there are indicators within the comments she makes. One such comment is when a woman comments positively on something you’re wearing. Some women will actually use that as an “excuse” to talk to you, or to prolong the conversation between you both. It is by no means a “by itself it means she’s attracted to you” thing, it is simply something to note in connection to the body language indicators I just mentioned.

A woman might say, “That’s very interesting” to something you’ve said and it could mean she is attracted or just interested in talking to you, when she says, “You’re very interesting” it is almost certainly an indicator that she is attracted toward you. Notice that in the first comment she complimented the content of what you said, which indirectly compliments you and may not mean she is attracted, but in the second comment she complimented you directly which is a strong indicator of attraction. So how can you tell if the first comment contains an indicator of attraction toward you? The answer is in her tonality, the way she says it.

A woman who is attracted toward you who says, “That’s very interesting” will say it with breathiness in her tone. What I mean by “breathiness” is a slight, almost whisper quality to it, even though she is saying it in a normal volume. This one will require you to pay attention, so you become able to recognize it when it happens. One great way to practice noticing when it is happening is to pay attention to women you already know and whom are talking to guys you know they are attracted to. I don’t mean you THINK they are attracted to the guy; I am talking about confirmed attraction.

Get yourself in the habit of noticing when she is making indirect and direct comments and compliments. This one little piece will go far in helping you know with more confidence when a woman is attracted, and thus more likely not to resist that first kiss.

I want to make it clear that a woman can be attracted to you and still resist that kiss, if she has not yet imagined what kissing you would be like. To help you better accomplish the kind of attraction that DOES get her to imagine what it would be like to kiss you, I invite you to take advantage of my over 10 years of hard work and effort putting together a system that ANY guy can use, in my “The Fire of Seduction” product. In it you will learn even more attraction indicators, how to spark strong attraction, all the way to making it a natural process for her to want to get physical with you.

Take the information I have given you already and go use it! Having this kind of information and the other powerful stuff I give you in other articles here will do you no good if you all you do is read it.

Thank you for your time, and live unleashed!

Michael “Bishop” Emery